Wedding Videography

2017 | Being in the Flow

In all my years... and shockingly I’ve had quite a few of them by now, I’ve never had a year where monstrous changes didn’t occur. I used to go to a coffee shop every Valentine’s Day by myself and write ‘my year in review.’ I honestly couldn’t even recognize the man from the year before. So much changed. I read another book - changed my life. I met a different person - changed my life. I had a different job - changed my life. Year after year, I kept evolving and growing and each new version of myself that was created became so much more... aware. I think that’s the best word for it. Awareness can’t be taught. The subject of the idea itself means it has to be experienced. 

If understood fully, awareness is akin to finding nirvana. It’s the balance of faith, hope, meaning and reason all wrapped up into the exact moment you’re living in right now. The goal is never to forget it and to live in that state of mind infinitely. Every year, I get a little bit better. Each new experience gave birth to a new awareness and an understanding I can’t imagine I ever got by without. So here I am now. 10 years since Flow started. People have come and gone but the Flow has always stayed the same. With our wedding this weekend on the sunny beaches of Clearwater, Florida - it makes our 1000th event! It’s fitting that I’ll be running photography, video and DJ for the celebration. As Liam Neeson said in Taken, “I do have a very particular set of skills. Skills I have acquired over a very long career. Skills that make me a valuable asset for every event worth celebrating!” I added in a twist at the end.  I began this journey by pulling off things others thought was crazy or impossible. Doing it all became part of my new normal. Thankfully, 10 years later, I’ve added on a team of celebrities in their respective field. Somehow, everything came full circle and I’m truly thankful. The next 10 years will bring about even more change. With these changes will be more excitement, more adventure, and events that not only create and capture the imagination but begin a whole new story that we each can call our own.

This is “our year’s favorite moments” with many more to come! I included a best friend who I lost to cancer, another best friend’s wedding day, adventures overseas, oldies but goodies, first times and last times, and falling in love. And most importantly a child’s perfect moment of GLEE! After all, being in the Flow is to be truly happy, challenged and ecstatic about the moment you’re living in right... NOW!

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Rachel + Stephen | Bearpath Golf and Country Club Wedding Videography

Minneapolis Wedding Videography at Bearpath Golf and Country Club

Back in 2013, Stephen was my intern and now I was just his wedding videographer last July!  Rachel and Stephen's wedding was an absolute fairytale (a rage type of fairytale at that).

Recently I have been asking clients if they want to be rockstars for their wedding video or if they'd like me to make them cry (happy tears of course). Having personally worked more than 580 weddings (that is an insane number isn't it?) I'm fairly confident that very few people have seen as much as I've seen or analyzed as much as I have analyzed when it comes to the wedding day and receptions. With all of these weddings under my belt, I have never gotten burnt out or tired of weddings (a very rare trait in the industry).

As people can testify, I'm attempting to bring all the fun, positivity and creativity into each day that I can possibly imagine. I attribute this to the fact that I, myself, never want to be bored. And a wedding is always filled with exciting, passionate, emotional and legendary moments. The key is that you have to be excited about finding each and every one of those moments and then be even more excited about extracting those moments and making them really shine! 

When I met with Stephen and Rachel they said they wanted to be rockstars. And there were moments of tears, laughter, smiles and a kid who could out dance any other human ever! And through it all, I kept thinking how do so many other photographers, videographers, or DJ's ever get bored in this industry? I have only come to one conclusion - they just don't love LOVE anymore. I love LOVE and here is a video showing some legendary love! 

Location: Bearpath Golf & Country Club

Video: Flow Event Group

Legacy Hill Farm Wedding: Chasity and Jake

Legacy Hill Farm Wedding Videography

As I drove up for my first time to Legacy Hill farm as Chasity and Jake's Videographer, I felt this memory, an experience I have never lived.  I think I was channeling the moment in the field of dreams where the family first sees the ball players playing baseball in their field for the first time.  This awe of overwhelming gorgeousness came over me.  I stepped out of my car and didn't grab my equipment right away as I normally do.  I walked around, stunned by the beauty of everything.  A little chicken began following me.  The ceremony was already set up on the hill, the never ending horizon below it.  I entered the main room where Kelly and the rest of the Legacy Hill Farm staff was putting up beautiful floral works of art for the reception.  I could go on for days about everything because the details where so perfect.  The owner came up and quickly shook my hand - mainly because she wanted me to move my car.  We chatted for a bit, becoming quick friends, as she gave me a little story about the venue.

The bride had only booked me three weeks before their wedding, wanting it as an add on, as what often happens in the wedding videography industry.  She later ended up giving me the best compliment a vendor could ever receive.  The groomsmen looked like the Sons of Anarchy, instantly making me want more muscles and tattoos.  If I ever get married, my friends  won't be as hot.  From there on out everything was free and easy.  It's fortunate at a place like this when everything is so close,  a step away, fun little roads to play in, and a short walk to everything.  

I ended the day dancing to Edward Sharpe's "home" at Surly and thinking it felt perfect.  The perfect feeling must have been a reflection of the day.  On another note...I met "the one" biking on the way home.  Later, I texted her, but she never texted back.